Judging someone is not fair to that person. We don’t have all the evidence, only God does. If we start judging those around us, we are disqualifying His judgements.
“So what’s the point of all this comparing and competing? you already have all you need. you already have more access to God than you can handle.”
Those who are called to the Gospel and set apart from the world. We do the opposite of what the world tells us to do.